Things getting craziest now!

My life has become worse than hell. I sometimes feel like I should end my life but my daughter, my schoolgoing brothers, sisters and age old parents... they all are dependent on me.

Things are getting worsen everyday. I am ashamed to say this but tonight when I came back home after a hectic day of work to find some peace and prepare for my MBA papers, she started nagging as usual. She is to take her on outing tommorrow as she is bored by now. I resisted saying that I am preparing for my MBA papers and exam is on head so I must study and we could go for outing after my exams. This argument made her violent and she locked the door from outside leaving the daughter with me. My 2 years old daughter started crying as she also disconnected the power supply from outide the room. Duuhhhhh.... what is she up to, I asked her and she replied bluntly "tumhari barbadi, beizzatti... bas aur kuch nahi..." and she opend fire from her mouth.

I am saddened and hurt deeply today. I have already lost my self respect and now losing my interest to live further. What's in a life where I just have to go through all this shit and I can't even complain. If I do I am dragged to police station with plenty of flase allegations that I have been beating her up. My brother had also come and was beating her. Even parents have come and tortured her. The police simply listens to her and when she is away asks for money and compromise with her or be ready for dire consequences. Hell!

Shame on me why I was born in India? Even if I was born why did I study and tried to make a living for my family and myself. Why did I marry in India... Is this the country I am proud of? I hardly believe so. It doesn't let me lead a normal life. Not even abnormal life. It's worst than I could have imagined.

Why would someone make such harsh law without knowing it's consequences if misued. Shame on him... shame on him he must have been a drunkard.

But no I am wrong. This law is there for last 20 years and everyone is blind. Nobody cares today if I am not even allowed to die with peace.

She tortured my daughter and called up police

My daughter was crying today for something and she brought a match box and burnt a stick. I thought she was just scaring the little kid but no God she touched the burning stick on my daughter's hand and the little baby shouted too loud. I couldn't see this and slapped my wife. She immediately ran to police station. I took my daughter to a nearby chemist shop for some anti burn lotion. My daughter was still crying so I decided to give her a ride on my bike as she enjoys it too much.

Suddenly I got a call on my mobile from police station and the officer asked me to come there as my wife was making a scene there and accusing me of beating her badly. Surprisingly she was even accusing me that I had burnt the daughter in her had and have kidnapped her. I had come accross an NGO (Save Indian Family) and I thought I should go to them for some advice as this is like a routine for her go to police station and harrass me.

One of the members of this NGO who is also a lawyer advised me that I should go to police station and cooperate them in investigation. As soon as I arrived there the office slapped me as he was too angry to see my wife crying. He asked me why I was beating her and why did I kidnap my daughter. I explained everything and asked how could I kidnap my own daughter. After some more questioning the office got convinced that she was lying totally and let me go back home with her.

She called up police again for no reason

We are shifted to Delhi considering the electricity problems in Ghaziabad. Life has been miserable in last few days and it doesn't seem to be getting better soon...

It's durgapuja time and we all decided to join our parents on this annual festival. I asked my wife if she was also interested in going there and she denied initially. I offerred her that if she doesn't want to go to my parents I could leave her to her own parents house and she could this festival as well and then she agreed to go. We were all prepared to leave for our native home and I took her to the vehicle and we are ready to go but suddenly she changed her mind and said she doesn't want go and I could if I want. I thought it was not good to argue at this time so I give her 500 rupees extra and left with my brothers and sisters for native home.

As soon as we left she called up police and complained that we all had fled away from delhi after beating her up badly and she even informed her parents and the women activist falsely.

I came back to her after festival and she was violent like anything. She came out from the flat and started shouting and abusing me in front of neighbours. It continued for an hour atleast and everyone advised me to keep quite as she had probably gone mad. She then called up police again and police took me to police station. They asked me why was I beating her and I asked them they could investigate from neighbours that she was abusing me for last one hour and falsely accusing me of beating her. After some more questioning police let us go back home and live peacefully.

She called up police for no reason

Right since she threw my brothers and sisters out she has become too offensive and my life is getting miserable by everyday. She would not cook for me, talk with me with abusive language, throw things on and often beat my daughter in front me. I am seeing some of the worst days of my life sufferring deep mental harassment.

One day I noticed my bike's keys are missing. I started searching the entire house but no luck. I asked her if she has seen the keys and she replied with bad mouth. I thought I should better search myself. But she continued her shouting and started saying that this is just starting and she would make my life even worse. I requested her that I was getting late and I had to go on an urgent call but she did not return the keys. It was clear from her talkings that she had kept the keys to trouble me so I started search her things and then she suddenly hitting her head on the wall, burn her hair with match stick, teared off her clothes and ran outside the door. I was just shocked why she did that and about half an hour later she returned with two policemen.

They asked me I had to come with them to police station. I went with them and there they asked me why was I beating my wife. They said that my wife is also accusing me that I have been beating her for dowry demand and she made several more allegations. I explained them everything and after realizing all the facts and sensing that my wife was lying to them just for troubling me they allowed to come back home. They asked us to sign an agreement that we would not quarrel again (they suggested I should sign this as formality).

Brothers and Sisters thrown away

We came back to our delhi home where I was staying with my younger brothers and sisters. It was a sunday and we three brothers as usual went outside to play cricket. Suddenly we got a call from home and it was our sister. She was crying and said that my wife was beating her badly. Even we could hear beating sound on phone. We immediately rushed to where we found her beating our sister. I pulled my wife and stopped her from beating. But then she turned on to my brothers and started exploiting them that they had sexual relation sister and that why we all were staying together. She then started throwing things on them and abusing them with dirty words. She pulled my sister again and when I tried to stop she turned violent. She warned us that she would run to police if I intervented and she would complain that we were beating her trying to kill. We got scared and then she pulled them outside the house and closed the door from inside. She also locked me inside the room. My brothers and sister were even not allowed to take their clothes and they had to spend 5-6 hours on railway station in the same clothes without even slippers. God damn it!

Social Insult and Harassment

My parents called up and informed me that my inlaws have come with about 20 people (some of them relatives) without even informing us and it seems like something is wrong. A couple of hours my mother was on phone. She was crying and requested me to come there as my inlaws had to discuss something with me. I asked them to give the phone to inlaws so I could ask them what is the issue. But none of them took the phone and I could hear them saying "iski maa ke hath pair tod do tabhi ladka aayega" and phone was disconnected. I was shocked and shaken and I decided to go there as soon as possible. My father called up again and asked almost begging when I was coming. I requested him again if he could bring one of them to talk to me. Finally my elder sisters father inlaw responded and I asked him what was the issue. He said I should come ASAP and I requested if he could give me some time because I had some important tasks to do here. He showed up little polite and requested my inlaws that I could come on Monday.

I was there on due time and they had said to come in morning on Monday. Some neighbours and other relatives were there to understand the issue and get a solution but by evening nobody came. Meanwhile my neighbours told me how badly my inlaws and his relatives and some of his criminal type men behaved with my parents. They abused and harassed my parents like and even warned to kill them if they would not put of relations with me and disown me legally.

Finally my inlaws came in the evening again with about 30 people with them and they had a women activist with them as well this time. She came up and introduced herself as women cell president of the other district and also said that she is women congress cheif for that district. She started asking me why we were troubling the girl and if we know that we all could be put in jail. I said she could ask my wife herself what the issues she had and thus things will be clear. My wife started blaming us with false dowry demand. She complained straightway that I was asking for Rs. 1 lacs as dowry and her father was not able to pay that money we all were troubling her. Listening to this even the women activist herself got angry with my wife because she had probably told other complaints to her before coming here. The women activist herself agreed that my wife was lying about dowry demand complaint on us but we should resolve the dispute.

I explained how badly my inlaws were mentoring my wife and that is why she was making all the issues. I told her the entire story how they have been troubling us. She verified those facts and agreed it was wrong with us. Finally she suggested that I should give it a try staying with my wife seperately and I agreed to it for a short period of time to see if she would stay happy away from my parents.

Greedy inlaws!

Knowing the fact that the dowry case was not filed against us from her relatives, my parents decided to visit our native home back in Jharkhand. As soon as they arrived my greedy inlaws visited them and apologized for their behaviour and siad that they wanted to send her back to us. My parents had no objection as they looked ashamed themselves. The next day I received a call from my inlaws asking me as where they should send my wife. I had only words that if you elders have settled it out and you think that she will lead a peaceful life and would not insult my parents again I would respect what you elders have decided. Since in our indian family system elders and their opinions are highly respected.

Surprisingly my father in law came with her here in Delhi and when I asked why they came here as they were supposed to send her to my parents. My father-in-law mischievely and falsely said that he had gone there but my parents did not accept her to keep with them. I immediately called up my parents and asked if my father inlaw had gone to them with my wife and they were surprised. My father asked me give the phone to my father inlaw and asked him if he was joking and my father inlaw rudely replied that why should he go and leave his daughter with them. He had married her to me so he had interest with me only and not with them.