Wrong bell from Inalws...

My father-in-law came for her "Vidaii"!

Hmm he did not ask or inform my parents that he was coming for "Vidaii". As per our rituals my father-in-law should have requested my father for the Vidaii as he is the guardian of our family. But amazing he did not do that.

Is it the wrong bell? May be it is too early to predict something. May be he forgot to call them... But what the heck he did not inform my parent even after Vidaii?

Is it just misbehave?

I just can't believe it! How can she neglect to serve lunch to my father?

We were married just a couple of weeks back and my father who has come here along with my sister to bring her here because I had to come back to delhi because of urgent calls from my clients. They have arrived here last night and I was happy till yet. But she shocked me too early by bluntly saying that she would not serve lunch to my father because she doesn't want to.

Well it may be she is a bit young and may be she is overwhelmed by the brightness she is seeing in Delhi and thinks she has crossed all the barriers and now she is free. But still my father is our guardian and her new guardian. She should pay respect to him. May be it's a kiddish behaviour and we should not predict something worse at this time. May be she will get mature by time and understand she should respect elders...

Okay I am taking my father to take lunch at a restaurant and may it will give her some sense that she should have not said that.

She later apologized that she did a mistake and she will not repeat it.. things are looking better again...